How to squirt- our secret tips

Squirting orgasms have long been a topic of fascination and mystery, often surrounded by myths and misconceptions. However, they are a natural and powerful experience for many people with vulvas. In this article, we’ll explore the science behind squirting, the role of the female prostate (often referred to as the Skene's glands ), how to recognize the cues, and tips for enhancing the experience using Onna’s specially designed toys for female ejaculation and squirting. For more detailed guide, go to our main how to squirt guide.

1. The Science of Squirting: Understanding the Anatomy

Squirting involves the expulsion of a clear, often slightly milky fluid from the urethra during orgasm or intense arousal. This fluid is different from urine and is believed to originate from the female prostate (Skene’s glands), which are located on the front wall of the vagina, surrounding the urethra. You can learn more about the structures connected to other parts of the female pleasure anatomy in our Female pleasure anatomy guide.

These glands produce a fluid that can accumulate and be expelled during intense stimulation of the G-spot, which is part of the anterior vaginal wall connected to these glands. This fluid is typically odorless and clear or slightly milky due to the presence of prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), similar to components found in semen.

2. The Fluid Build-Up: How It Happens

When the G-spot is stimulated—either through penetration or targeted pressure—it can cause these glands to fill with fluid. As arousal builds, this fluid may be released through the urethra, resulting in squirting. The amount of fluid can vary widely from person to person, ranging from a few drops to a more noticeable gush.

It’s essential to understand that squirting is a natural reflex and doesn’t happen for everyone, nor is it required for a fulfilling sexual experience. The key is relaxation and letting go of any pressure to achieve it.

3. Recognizing the Cues: How to Know When It’s Coming

Here are some common cues that squirting may be approaching:

• Intense G-spot stimulation: A firm, rhythmic pressure on the G-spot is often a trigger.
• Fullness sensation: Many describe a build-up similar to needing to urinate. This is normal—relaxing into the feeling instead of resisting it can lead to squirting.
• Involuntary contractions: Muscular contractions in the pelvic floor or a fluttering sensation can signal an impending release.
• Warming or tingling: A warm or tingling feeling in the pelvic area is also a common sign.

Breathing deeply and staying relaxed can help enhance sensitivity to these cues.

4. Enhancing the Experience with Onna Toys

Onna specializes in non-vibrating toys with bulbous heads, designed to precisely target the G-spot and the Skene’s glands for a more focused and intense squirting experience. Here’s how to use them effectively:

G-Spot Wands with Bulbous Heads

Onna’s G-spot toys and G-spot wands feature a curved design with a bulbous head to apply targeted pressure to the tail of the female prostate, stimulating it effectively. The bulbous tip allows for deep, controlled pressure that can help build the fluid needed for squirting.

How to Use:

• Start slowly: Apply firm but gentle pressure, using a rocking motion rather than thrusting.
• Explore different angles: Adjust the angle of the toy to find the most sensitive spots.
• Use plenty of lube: A water-based lubricant can reduce friction and enhance comfort. 

b. Dual-Ended G-Spot Toys

Some Onna G-spot toys are dual-ended, offering versatility in shape and size. These are perfect for exploring different sensations and depths of stimulation.

How to Use:

• Begin with the smaller end to warm up and then switch to the bulbous end for more focused pressure.
• Maintain a steady rhythm, pressing upwards towards the belly button area.

c. Textured G-Spot Stimulators

Onna also offers G-spot toys with subtle textures to enhance stimulation without vibration. The added ridges or bumps can help increase sensation and pressure on the G-spot, making it easier to trigger squirting.

How to Use:

• Use a slow, massaging motion to allow the textures to stimulate the G-spot fully.
• Focus on applying consistent pressure rather than fast movements.

5. Letting Go of Myths and Pressure

One of the most important aspects of experiencing squirting orgasms is letting go of myths and pressure. Not everyone squirts, and that’s completely normal. Focus on exploring what feels pleasurable rather than making squirting the goal.

Creating a relaxed, judgment-free environment with a partner, or during solo play, makes it easier to listen to your body’s cues and fully enjoy the experience.

Final Thoughts

Squirting orgasms can be an exciting part of sexual exploration, and understanding the anatomy, recognizing the cues, and using Onna’s expertly designed toys can make the experience more accessible and enjoyable. The key is patience, relaxation, and a focus on pleasure without judgment.

Explore with curiosity, take your time, and embrace the journey to discovering your body’s incredible potential.